Why don't Chinese men go home

During the Spring Festival, the net station is a crowd of people, from Beijing to various cities, counties and villages. These are people who are returning home. Nothing can stop the hope of returning home.

However, in a big city like Beijing, Chinese men are more and more reluctant to go home instead of the Spring Festival. It is unclear how many women complained about waiting for their presence at home. It was unclear how many women complained of waiting for their presence at home. They waited until midnight and waited for a man with a tired body. No one answered, and then the Other party was shut down.

â–  Men on the business floor don't go home

Recently, I watched a TV program and there were 100 famous Chinese private entrepreneurs on the scene. The host asked "Is there a daily [screening]?
People who work under 12 hours? There was no show of hands. Knowing some businessmen, they could divide the evening time into three sections: dinner, entertainment, and late-night snacks, which usually last until three or four o'clock in the morning, almost every day. I know a Wenzhou businessman who has long been It is not uncommon for Shanghai to do business without returning home. His wife first cries with him every night. He is eloquent: “To do business is to entertain people. Am I not tired? Not yet to make money? Isn't making money for this home? How hard it is to be a man! Women should understand. After his "education," his wife turned a deaf ear to the fact that he developed a call to go home and discovered that his wife was not at home. The wife of a couple of husbands who had not returned home for a long time formed an organization and went out to play together. Did not start home.

â–  Workplace elites do not return home

He is not the boss. If he does not work hard, how can he keep his high-paying jobs? Buy a house, buy a car, buy a big house, buy a good car, which loan is not like the mountain pressure on him? It is no more normal for the employees of foreign and private enterprises to work overtime. If you don't desperately exceed OtherS, there will be no shortage of people in China. After work, go to the bar or gym to relax with the nerves. The purpose of their return is to go to bed. In Beijing, the more high-end communities are “sleeping cities,” and only late at night can they see the headlights of the owners returning home.

One of my friends became CEO at the age of 30. He used his 7-year absence of rest days, worked 12 hours a day, and lived in company dormitory. But in the end he was killed by a sudden illness and suffered a full year of illness at home. He said that I gave up the lives of many normal people. I never returned home for seven years and my family had spent the Spring Festival. What I have is only one post that can be replaced by others and a broken body. When he returned to Beijing, he moved out of the company's dormitory and bought his own house. He went home from work and felt that it was "good to go home." However, it wasn’t too long. Less than six months after he recovered, he started his “flying trapeze” and 12-hour work. He mocked and said, “Now the elites are like this!”

â–  Workers do not return home

They use the cheap labor for a meager return, and they are paid until the end of the year to get their salary if they are not owed. At the end of the year, we must consider not returning home for the Chinese New Year. On the one hand, the residents of the city are no longer able to adapt to the life without migrant workers. On the other hand, they can earn three times the salary during the Spring Festival. Therefore, they chose not to return home. Their women may not see their husband for several years, but women will not complain because they can get the money they can't earn in the life of working in the fields.

Men leave their homes to discuss life, women stay in their homes, and Chinese men are like this for thousands of years. Meng Jiangnin’s search for her husband, Wang Bao’e, took a long time in the kiln for 18 years. Since ancient times, Chinese ritual has allowed women to be patient, to wait, and to consume their own youth while waiting. As long as men can bring wealth and glory to this family, they will Can not go home, the woman's wait is worth it.

What about modern society? Women's economic independence, they began to be reluctant to defend their independence, why men can play outside the scene, women can not find pleasure? So women also have a special place, but also have a handsome guy to accompany, but the men who accompany men are other women, men who accompany women are other men, the only difference is who will accompany anyone to pay.

What is the meaning of home? Why do Chinese families lose the reason to attract men back home? Chinese men, why don't you want to go home? Is the social environment giving you too much pressure or is it not a symbol of a successful person? If "No home" can be successful, then I believe most men will still choose not to go home.

Behind the pursuit of success and interest is the loss of traditional morality. We need to redefine the concept of success. The position of successful women is often that both the family and the business are successful. Then is the positioning of successful men changed?