Men are born to love playing with lighters and my faithful friends

The world is too big and has too many desires. When he is psychologically fragile, the only one that can be firmly grasped is only this lighter.

I have to bring two things to go out: the key and the lighter. The main purpose of the lighter is to light cigarettes, but I rarely smoke and I don't have the passion to give people cigarettes. Why do I like lighters? Are all men born to love playing with fire? Ha ha.

When I met a friend in middle school, I didn't have other hobbies. I just loved collecting lighters and I was intoxicated. After the adult had economic conditions, various brand-name lighters were collected by it. Not only that, he also had a one-off disposable lighter. Every time you travel to the field, you don't forget to collect lighters everywhere. On one occasion, the room in which he had stored the lighter caught fire and the result was conceivable.

I did not collect hobbies. I know that brand-name lighters are only "ZIPPO" and "MARLBORO". The reason why I like to be a lighter is probably due to the juvenile era. The cowboys are riding high on their heads, killing and setting fire. The arson shot was especially chic. A “zippo” rubbed it on the jeans and threw it behind the barrel of gasoline or piles of firewood. The raging fire ignited...

Nowadays, men in cities are more and more elegant and petty bourgeoisie. They only watch films such as "Insomnia Seattle" and "In the Mood for Love". The cowboys may not look at it. But men are men after all. The bones are always rebellious and unruly. The idea of ​​killing and arson is something you can’t even think about, but putting a lighter in your coat pocket is not illegal. So, you can often see a man in the bar, restaurant, playing a lighter in a "dangling", nervous.

Someone asserted that the man who loves to use a golden lighter is extroverted, pursues luxury, and likes to show off; the owner of a silver lighter may be relatively quiet and romantic and delicate; while he prefers alternative colors such as purple or black, most of them are unique. , and proud of their own uniqueness. I think this is a speculation about color alone. Men will care about the color of lighters. Take me as an example. I may care more about the shape and texture of the lighter. It must be simple, metallic, and crisp. The most important thing is that it must be played every time. It won't make you paralyzed at a critical time.

I am not a psychologist, but I dare to conclude that men like lighters are actually psychologically suggestive behaviors. Man likes to master and manipulate some things, advocating a sense of struggling with strategy, but it is very regrettable that our society can not create such opportunities for too many men, so a small lighter has become a spiritual sustenance for men. A man holding a lighter tightly in his hand, on the surface, does not change his face. In fact, his heart is anxious. For him, the world is too big, too many desires, and when he is psychologically fragile, the only one that can be firmly grasped is only this lighter.

Therefore, the best gift for a woman to a man is not a tie or a wallet, but a lighter. Of course, you must realize that this is also a subconscious indulgence. (Han Haoyue)