Anan is almost three years old! He learned a lot of skills, such as: help the grandfather to send newspapers, give backs; play games with Dad, sing songs for his mother's milk... Sometimes, he is like a little adult, help Children younger than him: "Don't cry! Brother to help you!"
However, Anan also has its own weaknesses: do not like to sleep on time, afraid of sleeping alone! Every night, he is holding a bunch of toys and will not let go, pitiful request to play for a while! Even if you even lie to the bed, you must be accompanied by your mother. If you wake up in the middle of the night and don't see your mother, you will definitely not cry for half an hour! Why are children doing so differently during the day and night? Let's listen to Anan how to say it:
I am really not sleepy, I still want to play!
I can't wait until my mother can accompany me!
Be sure to smell your mother's taste to sleep!
What if I have a nightmare?
In fact, I am afraid of black!
Why are you not sleeping?
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The predicament faced by An An’s mother is what most mothers have experienced or are about to experience. Most children, like An An, are eager to be independent and not willing to start small! In the face of children who are unwilling to sleep, how does Anan’s mother see the move?
"The inner world of the child is very rich. It is absolutely impossible to ask him to sleep on time. Through the usual observation of An An, we find that he likes to compete with the children. So when we go to sleep, we call An An. Come to the game, the little guys really took over! ä¹–ä¹– Close your eyes and wake up in a short while!"
After the child is born, a good night's sleep becomes a dream you can't hope for! Just after the infancy black and white reversed the work, the child entered the first rebellious period of life, how to make him fall asleep smoothly, become the "topic" that you have to face every night! In the face of a child who "does not sleep or sleep," how long can you play this long-lasting battle? Tonight, is it a sleepless night?
In the face of the more excited children, how many parents are poor, why is it so difficult for children to fall asleep? Especially for the children of the rebellious period of 3-4 years old, there are always endless new tricks to "handle" you. At this moment, you must not be in a mess. Letting children develop good sleep habits is a long-lasting battle. Therefore, you must first "conspiracy" with your family to see the tricks of recruiting and recruiting, increase your chips in this protracted war, and let the children completely love. Go to sleep.
The first step: clear your bottom line
3-4 years old, is the age of the legendary "cats do not love dogs." The children at this stage are extremely energetic and do not toss up to exhaustion and never sleep. No matter how coercive and tempting, the children are still doing their own thing, sometimes even moving out one or two reasons to convince you to play with him all night. At this moment, my mother must be clear about her bottom line and tell her children: "No matter how you make trouble, you must go to bed at 8 o'clock, not continue! Continue! Play!"
Step 2: Lead by example
Do you advise your child to go to sleep, do you have to observe the schedule? Maybe you have a lot of reasons to prove that you are sleeping at night, but everything you do, the child is in your eyes. The child is a natural imitator. Your late sleep will affect him. He will think that life is right: "Mom, why don't you sleep?" When the child asks you this way, how should you face? Correct? So ask your child to ask yourself before.
The third step: jointly formulating rules
It is important to decide who the rules are. If you have made it, children often challenge your endurance by constantly testing your bottom line. If you are working with your child, the results will be completely different. Children like the feeling of being the master. If your child often has to play until eleven to sleep, can you discuss with him whether he can be a little ahead of time, such as ten o'clock, and then he can gradually accept this routine, then gradually advance, each time you change the rules and The child has a face-to-face consultation. If the child is not willing at the time, don't force it. Adjusting the work schedule is a long-term battle.
Step 4: Come to the bed before the big exercise
The time before bedtime is the biggest "can" for the mother. At this moment, the mother must grasp the psychological characteristics of 3-4 years old. The lack of enough is the reason why they do not want to sleep. You may wish to add this theme to your bedtime walkthrough. First of all, you can tell your child a warm, quiet story. If your child is a little excited, don't worry too much. Secondly, if he ran out of bed occasionally, you would also want to use the small characters in the story to attract him back; once again, the children like the game, you can try to sleep better than anyone else. This will be a process that has been repeated many times. Don't worry.
Step 5: "Little Good Fortune" in the morning
If the plan is not successful, please continue to work hard; if you succeed, you must remember that this is not your credit. Therefore, letting a child wake up in a happy feeling is a necessary prerequisite to encourage him to fall asleep again. The Japanese writer Haruki Murakami’s "Small Good Fortune" refers to a smile and a true happiness. Every day, the child is given a "small fortune", such as a cup of hot milk, a kiss, a compliment, a hug, and so on. Even if it is just a smile, it will give the child a good mood all day long, let the child look forward to the next morning.
Step 6: Resolve his new "Flower"
The first rebellious child in life will come up with endless new tricks to challenge your bottom line. He may say this evening: "Good mother, sleep a little later." Or "Mom, I suddenly have a good idea! I will do it soon", even "Mom, the great downstairs I am sleeping late every night!"... In the face of these ridiculous reasons, how can you calmly solve it! At this time, you should never be "squatted" by your child. Remember, stick to the principles to develop good sleep habits. First of all, if you look at the tricks but don't expose them, you can't hurt your child's little self-esteem. Secondly, the words and deeds, let the children understand that the mother is a person who adheres to the principle. How can I not insist on being a good mother? !
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